David
L. Debus was a retired Air Force Colonel with a passion for his family, his
garden, and pipe organs. Born in Chicago in 1934 to the late Edwin Henry and
Ruth Debus, Dave was lovingly raised by his aunt Esther and uncle Joe F. Ilg,
Jr. Throughout his life, Dave exemplified grace, honesty, and kindness. He was
a gentle and humble soul who loved his family dearly. Dave and his soul mate
Claudia met in 1956 and were married in 1957. Dave was an avid supporter of his
children¹s and grandchildren’s endeavors. He and Claudia enjoyed many band
concerts, soccer games, and dance competitions throughout their years together.
Dave loved all kinds of music. Dave regaled us with numerous funny stories of
his days playing the saxophone in various bands in his youth. One of Dave''s
most enjoyable hobbies was gardening. With meticulous care, he planted, weeded,
re-arranged and created a haven of flowers, azaleas and trees in his backyard.
His gardens included numerous bird feeders that included a wide array of
defenses against the devious squirrels trying to eat the bird food. He had a
quiet sense of humor, was well read and loved his Green Bay Packers. Dave was a
beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, who will be missed immensely.
A graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, he was commissioned an Air Force officer
in June, 1956 and served in the United States Air Force 27 years. During that
time, he served in Newfoundland, Canada with the 323rd Fighter Interceptor
Squadron; the Air Force Space Systems Division in Los Angeles, California; two
tours at the Air Force Aeronautical Systems Division at Wright-Patterson Air
Force Base, Ohio; the Air Force Military Personnel Center at Randolph Air Force
Base, Texas and at the Air Force Systems Command at Andrews Air Force Base,
Maryland. During his career, he attended the Industrial College of the Armed
Forces at Fort McNair, Washington, D.C., and obtained a Masters Degree in
Industrial Management at the Air Force Institute of Technology at
Wright-Patterson Air Force Base. His last assignment was with the Deputy Chief
of Staff for Contracting and Manufacturing, Air Force Systems Command, Andrews
Air Force Base. He was a member of the Air Force Association and the Military
Officers Association of America. After retiring from the Air Force, he worked
for several defense contractors in Arlington, Virginia until August 1996. Dave
was a member of Aldersgate United Methodist Church in Alexandria, Virginia
where he was active in various church organizations over the years. He chaired
the Board of Weekday Education, chaired the Staff-Parish Relations Committee and
was a member of the Education, Communications, Building, and Music Committees.
He loved the pipe organ and chaired organ committees at the First Methodist
Church in Inglewood, California (1963) and at Aldersgate. He oversaw the design
and installation of the new Casavant pipe organ at Aldersgate in 2001 and
continued as its caretaker until 2016. He was also a member of the American
Guild of Organists. On August 26, 2016, Dave lost his long and courageous
battle with Metastatic Ocular Melanoma. Left to cherish his memory is the love
of his life, his faithful and loving wife, Claudia, a son, David and wife
Christine and their two daughters Charlene and Kelsey Rose; daughter Lori
Wright and husband Henry and their daughter Lacey; daughter Linda Finnerty and husband
Mike; daughter Marjorie Lynch and husband Doug and their children Kinsey and
Charlie; cousin Judith Peterson (Ilg) and husband Charles; several nieces and
nephews; and many furry grand-pets. A service celebrating Dave''s life will be
held at 1 p.m., Saturday, September 10, 2016, at Aldersgate United Methodist
Church, 1301 Collingwood Road, Alexandria, VA. Interment at Arlington Cemetery
will be at a later date. Professional services entrusted to the staff at
Demaine Funeral Home, 5308 Backlick Road, Springfield, VA. The family would
like to thank the doctors, nurses, hospice and caregivers for their loving care
and attention to our dad and husband. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made
to the Ocular Melanoma Foundation, 1717 K St. NW, Suite 900, Washington, DC
20006. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Ocular Melanoma
Foundation, 1717 K St. NW, Suite 900, Washington, DC 20006. Published in The
Washington Post on Sept. 4, 2016.